A common and very interesting topic in every house..isnt it!!
Just remember that When nobody else was there for you, God was there and He will never leave you alone!!!
Who are mother-in-laws.?. yesss.. our minds sing the famous tv serial "saas bi kabi bahu thi"
Not to forget they are mothers too. But when it comes to Being MIL.. what happens to the mother in them? What happens when a girl enters into her sons life? Does the behaviour of the son change or is she afraid that her son may not be the same and she herself transforms into another person!! Strange but true (in some cases..it may not be)!!!
When son gets married.. the girl trusts in him that he will always support and be with her.. and help to adjust in the new house with new people. She is lucky if she finds such husband! unfortunately in many cases its not so!! The boy being son first respects his parents, siblings, his relatives...but forgets that the girl whom he has married has left her parents, siblings, relatives, friends and in fact her total identity which she has created from birth.. enters into a new atmosphere of unknown people where she has to be a wife, DIL, SIL and many more relations. How will it be being alone in a crowd when none cares about you? Disaster!!
Coming to the main point of MIL.. when she can be a mother of her sons/daughters, cant she welcome her DIL and treat as her daughter. How heavenly it would be to even think if MIL and DIL can help each other and create a happy home! It can be possible with only the support from Husband and MIL...as they are like the pillars of the family. But instead of being like a mother, she becomes a HITLER..domination starts and she thinks DIL is her slave!!! Pathetic!!
Of course, in this generation girls are very very matured enough not to loose their freedom and maintain the distance since start of their marriage. Now-a-days, they are more career oriented and interested in their life. Nor do they sacrifice their parents/siblings/friends and maintain their identity!! For sure, such people inspire others..
I pray that every DIL gets a mother in her MIL!! And may God give the strength to others (who are unlucky), to face the life and live their life happy!!
Just remember that When nobody else was there for you, God was there and He will never leave you alone!!!
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