Love and Break ups!

 Love.. A simple four letter word yet has emotions like a roller coaster rides.

We are all born out of love. Its an feel, an emotion. Unfortunately, its been misused by many in this world.

We get attracted to others and term it as Love.. create a bond/relation. Very few take it through out their life time. But, many fall out of such relation. Its mainly due to ego, attitude, compromise, sacrifice, so many other reasons. They tend to forget that a relation is built on trust, compromise, understanding. No one is perfect in this world.. Not even God for that matter. If HE was perfect, there would have been no difference in HIS creation. Thats what its all about. IMPERFECT LIFE yet we have to learn to be happy and enjoy the journey.

When there are differences, one tends to give up. Thats what is breaking up of a relation happens. It gives such a pain. We feel that everything has ended... life has no meaning. Pairon ke tale zameen kisak sa gaya.. means the world under your feet is just taken off. Yeah.. its understood that theres a lot of emotions that the 2 give each other and when it ends, emotions are shattered. This happens for many unknown reasons, which is very unfortunate. Rather, being immatured or selfish! Some people just play with others emotions..

How to come out of it....

That takes a hell of time. The memories are worst which cant be erased. Our Mind is our enemy which keeps playing all the past and keeps hurting. But.... We can overcome this also. Nothing is impossible if WE have a strong Mind and a Strong Will to do so. 

How can a person stir out all your emotions and just throw you as a garbage? That means you never mattered to them. It was just a phase they wanted to be with you. Such kind of people cant stick to one person for a lifetime and they have confused mind.. They dont know to value what they have!

Just think of the person who loves you the most.. who is always there for you at every moment.. Who guides, thinks, fights and never ever leaves come what it is!.. No No.. not ur parents, not ur friends, not ur siblings.. NO..! You will find that person in the mirror.. Yes...its none other than Your OWN SELF!

We live life for ourself first for many years. Then when any relation happens, we tend to give away part of ours. Thats being in Love. It shoud be in both ways. If someone cant do it for you and leave you in the middle.. Trust me. they dont deserve to be in your life. Cry and brood over such person for a while but not for a lifetime. They are not worth your precious time. 

Always believe in yourself. There is so much in this universe to be grateful for and so much to learn that one lifetime is never enough. In which case, think.. does brooding over 1 person in this whole universe worth your time???  Thinking about past getting into depression and spoiling your health for someone who left you like a trash... Think about it! Its totally useless! 

Time is the best healer. Give yourself the time, divert your mind. Do things which you love.do things which you have never done before also. Learn new things.. Travel to new places, meet new people. Every person is a story. But promise yourself that YOU will NEVER go back to that past which hurt you. Sometimes, the person who broke off with you, tend to come back realizing what they miss. But it would be only for a phase. They will again leave you no matter what. 

The more chance you give someone, the less respect they will have for you. They will ignore the standards that your have set coz they will know another chance will be given. They are not afraid to lose you as they know no matter what, you wont walk away. They get comfortable with depending on your forgiveness. So, NEVER let any person get comfortable disrespecting you. 

Clear off, Wake up to a new life and start building new memories. Enjoy and live every moment! 

Let the Love in You.. Be Pure!!! 

Have a peaceful, happy n healthy life ahead!! 

Cheers!